
Something Old
Something New
Something Borrowed
Something Blue
and a Silver Sixpence in Her Shoe.
This good luck saying dates
back to Victorian times and many brides try to arrange their wedding attire
accordingly.
Something Old represents the link with the bride's family and the past. Many
brides choose to wear a piece of antique family jewelry or a mother's or
grandmother's wedding gown.
Something New represents good fortune and success in the bride's new life. The
wedding gown is often chosen as the new item.
Something Borrowed is to remind the bride that friends and family will be there
for her when help is needed. The borrowed object might be something such as a
lace handkerchief.
Something Blue is the symbol of faithfulness and loyalty. Often the blue item is
the garter.
A Silver Sixpence in her Shoe is to wish the bride wealth.
The Wedding Ring
The Western practice of wearing a Wedding
Ring on the third finger (not including the thumb) began in Greece in the third
century B/C. The Greeks believed that there was a vein, named the "vein of
love," that ran from what we now call the Ring finger directly to the heart. As
a result, they place the ring that symbolized love on that finger.
Later, the Romans, adopting Greek science, copied the custom and took it one
step further. Roman physicians used their ring fingers to stir medicine,
believing that since the ring finger was connected to the heart, it could detect
toxicity.
The Bouquet
At its inception, the bouquet formed part
of the wreaths and garlands worn by both the bride and groom. It was considered
a symbol of happiness. Today the practice of tossing the bouquet is an offshoot
of throwing the garter. The single woman who catches the bouquet is believed to
be the next to marry.
The Garter
Throwing the garter began in France when
pieces of the bridal attire were considered lucky. The bride would throw the
garter to the guests at the wedding and whoever caught it could expect good
luck. In the United States, the groom traditionally removes the garter from the
bride and throws it to the unmarried men. The man who catches it is thought to
be the next to marry. At some weddings the man who catches the garter will place
it on the leg of the lady who caught the bouquet or they may start the next
dance. It is also common for the recipients of the bouquet and garter to have a
photograph taken with the bride and groom.